Dejected and Stayed Back

I wonder why any two people (Who know each other**) in this world do not have the same amount or considerably the same amount of feeling towards each other. The feeling may be like, dislike, love or any other. I am not saying this statement just out of some random thought...but after giving a profound understanding towards it.  

Except for the few best Couples i have seen, this phenomenon is clearly visible. Indeed at this point in time i would like to ask you one question......Can you tell me the names of 10 people whom you like most? and can you also give me the names of 10 people who like you most? I am cent percent sure both the lists do not match more than 50%. And the matching percentage goes down inversely with the number of people you take into consideration. Even this 50% is with a difference in priority of ranking. If there is a better match, i am almost certain that you are biased in your judgement. But there is a chance. 

In fact this ranking is done by everyone.....even a layman does that. If you dont trust me ask your grandma....who on the earth dear to you? She answers without thinking back. 

This is the very reason you expect right things from Wrong people and vice-versa. Because you expect someone to be more transparent to you that in turn because you feel he or she is more important to you. But the fact is ..."the same" is not true from the other end. So you end up landing dejected for something which you feel is close to your heart.  Each time it happens you have a lesson to catch. The lesson should ideally make you rearrange the list that you have in your backyard. If the general inertia you have is stopping you to do that, get ready for the next incident and the following lesson. I am not here trying to say "Go Away" from people.....but all i want to say is give the rational judgement. 

It is not only immoral but also injustice to give wrong rankings......because of which you are dejected and sometimes you cause someone getting dejected. ....